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Death and Other Super Chill Stuff

Death and Other Super Chill Stuff

Hi. It’s me. Thinking about death again in a very practical, autistic way. Like: We’re all going to die. Everyone who has ever existed before us? Dead. Billions of people. All...

Death and Other Super Chill Stuff

Hi. It’s me. Thinking about death again in a very practical, autistic way. Like: We’re all going to die. Everyone who has ever existed before us? Dead. Billions of people. All...

My Weird Little Secret Ritual

My Weird Little Secret Ritual

Let’s talk about something incredibly niche, deeply satisfying, slightly embarrassing, and absolutely essential to my daily functioning as an autistic person: Cutting off my split ends. I have other stims,...

My Weird Little Secret Ritual

Let’s talk about something incredibly niche, deeply satisfying, slightly embarrassing, and absolutely essential to my daily functioning as an autistic person: Cutting off my split ends. I have other stims,...

The Year I Quit my Day Job and Accidentally Learned About my Nervous System (and Shame)

The Year I Quit my Day Job and Accidentally Lea...

I am a middle-aged woman who was diagnosed with autism late in life, which means I spent decades thinking I was just “bad at being a person.” Loud places made...

The Year I Quit my Day Job and Accidentally Lea...

I am a middle-aged woman who was diagnosed with autism late in life, which means I spent decades thinking I was just “bad at being a person.” Loud places made...

Perimenopause: Or, How My Autism Suddenly Turned the Volume to 11

Perimenopause: Or, How My Autism Suddenly Turne...

Perimenopause: Or, How My Autism Suddenly Turned the Volume to 11 I used to think I was coping reasonably well with life. Sure, I was autistic (unknowingly at the time),...

Perimenopause: Or, How My Autism Suddenly Turne...

Perimenopause: Or, How My Autism Suddenly Turned the Volume to 11 I used to think I was coping reasonably well with life. Sure, I was autistic (unknowingly at the time),...

Gift Giving Season, or: An Autistic Woman Attempts Advanced Social Origami

Gift Giving Season, or: An Autistic Woman Attem...

Gift giving season arrives every year with the subtlety of a marching band crashing through my nervous system. For many people, it’s festive. For me—a middle-aged autistic woman—it’s a complex...

Gift Giving Season, or: An Autistic Woman Attem...

Gift giving season arrives every year with the subtlety of a marching band crashing through my nervous system. For many people, it’s festive. For me—a middle-aged autistic woman—it’s a complex...

Sensory Bliss: The Autistic Superpower Nobody Talks About

Sensory Bliss: The Autistic Superpower Nobody T...

People love to talk about the sensory sensitivities that make life a little… prickly for autistic folks.Yes, socks with seams are the devil’s invention.Yes, anything touching my feet feels like...

Sensory Bliss: The Autistic Superpower Nobody T...

People love to talk about the sensory sensitivities that make life a little… prickly for autistic folks.Yes, socks with seams are the devil’s invention.Yes, anything touching my feet feels like...